EVERYONE GIVES ADVICE TO THE NEW MOM

EVERYONE GIVES ADVICE TO THE NEW MOM This probably happens to the majority of the women that recently became mothers for the first time: they feel as if they really know nothing about taking care of the baby, feeding him, what to do when he doesnt seem to stop crying, how to dress the little one.
Of course, immediately older relatives or friends that have children appear and everyone is competing to give you the best advice.
And the amount of advice is huge but many of the indications contradict themselves.
Actually, as time passes, you start feeling like you are in some kind of rollercoaster and dont know who you should listen to first.
it seems that all of your friends have nothing better to do than give you advice.
Even the mommies from the park, that you really dont know, are now giving you advice and sharing their opinions regarding your baby: he looks too thin or too fat for his age, he is too quiet or too noisy, and how you should feed him, as if you didnt already know that.
The truth is, that no matter how many books have been written to better explain this, being a parent is a science forever growing and changing, sometimes in a trembling way.
What was good two or three years ago, today is outdated and not recommended, like placing your baby on his belly when you get him ready for sleep or giving him solid food before he turns four month old.
And if in your family there hasnt been a baby for a long time, you should expect such out-dated advice.
You must try not to loose your patience because they mean well and they cant know what the latest discoveries in this area are.
It is true that sometimes this can get very annoying.
They will all say Ive raised a child already, you havent!

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